COLLAB W/ DE BLOSSOM COLLECTION

Original Post: https://www.deblossomcollection.com/blogs/official-blog/3-valentines-day-looks-with-ria-lazo

 

Valentine’s Day is right around the corner! We all know that means the pressure for the perfect head to toe outfit is on. Wether you’re spending the day with friends or your significant other – De Blossom Shoes and Angelina Shoetique’s definitely got you covered. Their shoes are definitely statement pieces, that creating outfits with them came completely effortless. Styles from both collections are versatile to piece from any day to night look – perfect for your Valentine’s Day plans!

If you’re like me, you’re planning to break hearts this Valentine’s Day. Independence, self-care, and love is something I will always advocate for. If you don’t have anyone to celebrate your accomplishments with – take a moment to celebrate yourself. You deserve all the authentic and genuine love. This Valentine’s Day, regardless if you’re with a significant other or not – take a moment to recognize your beauty. Seize the day with all your loved ones, and make it yours.

To me, feeling confident comes from feeling empowered and comfortable with yourself. And nothing gives me a confidence boost like a perfect fashion look. Here are 3 day to night looks with De Blossom Shoes and Angelina Shoetique, to endlessly inspire you to seize the day this Valentine’s Day.

  1. Casual Look: Knee Highs to Catch Their Eye 

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Nothing is more simple but subtly sexy then knee high boots. I paired these boots with a skin tight dress with an effortless chocker. This casual look is so simple, but is such a cute day look for a Valentine’s lunch-date.

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If it’s too cold, this outfit can be paired effortlessly with a cute leather jacket. But regardless of the weather, you’ll be sure to give your date the chills with these boots!

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Semi-Formal Look: Black and Better

My absolute favorite look currently, is the classic all black look with a statement bootie. This bootie is a perfect and subtle heel for a casual yet sultry look.

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This is such a simplistic yet bold look, that will surely break hearts this Valentine’s Day. For me, this comfortable statement shoe is what ties this entire look together
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A huge fashion plus for me is when a heel is the perfect length, but also comfortable to walk in throughout the entire day. Not only are these shoes extremely cute, but your feet will be unbothered your entire date.

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3. A Night Out: Fine and Shine

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This De Blossom heel is the ultimate statement piece. The rhinestones wrapped around the heel is perfect for an elegant night out.

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Pairing a statement dress and a statement shoe – you can never go wrong. This shoe is so unique and unmatchable, you’ll definitely be turning heads. If you’re looking to add a little sparkle to your look, but not being too overbearing –  this heel is perfect for you!

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It’s Valentine’s Day – tis’ the season of being unapologetically extra.

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However you’re spending your day – I hope it’s filled with authenticity and genuine love. It’s important for me to be confident in my style choices,  and these looks from De Blossom and Angelina Shoes, definitely give me the confidence to slay the day. Happy Valentine’s Day!

XOXO,

Ria Lazo

aka RiaxLA

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Back and Better

Back and Better 

I’ve spent this past year avoiding posting on my blog, because I was genuinely unhappy with the content I was putting out. I’ve taken steps back to re-evaluate where I want to go as a blogger, and how I can present myself in a way that is true to myself and who I represent.  This past year has been an immense year of growth, learning new things, and connecting with new people. I’ve learnt things about myself that I’ve never known, and finally understanding the true meaning of staying persistent and working hard to achieve the things you’ve always wanted. After much editing and deliberation, riaxla.com is finally relaunched and ready! I am super excited, to get back into officially blogging and speaking my voice.

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This past year has been filled with blessings that I will forever be grateful for: becoming one of 50 Charlotte Russe It Girl’s, reaching 10K followers on Instagram, teaming up with small businesses and big brands, and meeting inspiring individuals along the way. I am reminded every day of the blessings and opportunities that Cultivating Confidence has brought me. Living confidently and having the self-efficacy you can achieve the things you want, surely isn’t easy. But work hard, be persistent, and most importantly stay true to who you are. Never compromise who you are to please others. Work for yourself, and do things for yourself simply because it’s important to you. If it’s important enough, hard work will come easy.

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This past year has pushed me to grow more than I anticipated. And amidst all the blessings, was a world full of heartache. I just recently finished my junior year of college, and let me just say was it an emotional roller coaster. I’ve lost close friends, who showed me their true colors when things turned difficult. Broke up, got together, broke up again with important people in my life. Put my faith and trust into people who promised they’d always be present. I’ve made mistakes that I deeply regret, I’ve lost myself in different ways because of my own pain. There are many days where I fake a smile and pretend to be strong for those around me – but bottom line is I was struggling, and sometimes still am.
34826285821_199c039ce1_oHighs and lows, and lows again. Sometimes it’s hard to get up. There are moments where I sit back and question my ability to carry on. I think a lot of the time we sit around trying to find a savior. Wishing for someone to pick us out of our pain, someone to save us from ourselves. Something I’ve learnt, and still trying to come to terms with – the only person who can pick you up is yourself. People who promise to be there, eventually won’t be there anymore. And that’s not to say is their fault – it’s life. Sometimes people get caught up in their own reality. If you constantly focus on someone else for your happiness.. if you need someone to save you, how are you going to save yourself? Respect yourself enough to know who you need. You are strong, you made it this far. You will continue to persist.

Focus on your dreams, bounce back, and be better. That’s the goal. Make it your own.

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Entire Outfit from Charlotte Russe 

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Crop Top   (similar look –  exact crop top available in stores)

Pants 

Photography by Kelvin Cheng 

Coachella Fashion Guide

If this is your first Coachella, relax and try not to stress out to much. A problem of mine was worrying about what I was wearing WAY too much. Yes, it’s about the fringe, flower crowns, and crop tops.. but just remember it’s really about the music. Enjoy yourself and don’t wear something that will hinder your experience!

There’s two types of people at Coachella.. one who sits around, and one who won’t stop moving. There’s some people who simply just sit back and chill in cute outfits, eating watermelon. However.. I’m the type of person who’s always in crowds, dancing, or running around.. with watermelon lol. So if you’re a person like me, here are my fashion DON’TS of Coachella based off of experience.

1.  NO Sandals/Flip-Flops

Yes, I know those gladiator sandals are to die for.. but trust me you’ll regret it. Your feet will not only get super disgusting, but your feet will most likely get stepped on. Especially if you’re with a group who likes to be in crowds.. (aka the Sahara tent) please don’t wear sandals. You don’t want a nail to break, or something happening along those lines. Not to mention your shoes won’t be wearable after Coachella! Save yourself the heartache ladies!

2. NO long sleeve dresses / rompers

People do it, I don’t know how. But for me, I’d rather not be drenched in my own sweat. Most of the material used for these dresses are heavy, and will be more because you’re sweating!

3. NO HATS

In my experience, a hat got super annoying. While I was trying to dance my hat either keep flying away, or people taller than me would elbow it off my head. Although it was useful for the sun, I’d rather do without it.

Those are honestly my absolute no’s of Coachella. So here are some of the things you should wear.

1. Flowy shorts and open-back tops

Shorts that you can breathe in: I can’t stress how important this is. No jean shorts, or material that is heavy. Like a long dress/romper, this will make you really uncomfortable. Forever 21, H&M, and Pacsun are selling really cute shorts with matching crops. Check them out!

2. Fringe boots 

If you can, get your hands on fringe boots! They’re much easier and cheaper to find nowadays. They are super cute, comfortable to walk in, and keep your feet clean! I wore fringe boots all three days last year – my friends were all complaining about their feet hurting, but mine were perfectly fine. So if you find them, buy them!

Other necessities:

  • Camel Backs: invest in one of these so you can refill your water, stay hydrated!
  • Sunblock: you already know why….
  • Sunnies: CHEAP BUT CUTE ONES, they are more prone to get lost or break at Coachella
  • Flash Tattoos: Great way to accessorize without the annoyance of jewelry
  • SNEAK IN PAIN RELIEVERS: just do it, you’ll thank me later!

I hope this helps, and gives you some ideas. Remember don’t stress and have fun! I’m going Weekend 2 so if you see me, say hi. Stay safe, and Happy Coachella ❤

Gladiator in Stripes?

AHHHH.. I’m super excited. If you don’t follow me on Instagram/Twitter.. Wet Seal recently featured me on their Instagram page! This is my first noteworthy feature; it’s exciting and such a huge confidence boost!

I went on a little bit of a shopping spree at Wet Seal and absolutely fell in love with these sandals. So obviously had to snap a picture with them. This shirt dress is also from Wet Seal – I really like how it’s tight fitted so it gives it a more feminine look. Especially since I’m so tiny, I drown in shirt dresses- so this was the perfect fit!

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Play By Your Own Rules

Every time I wear this shirt I always get the comment – “you look like a referee” hence the title: playing by your own rules. Wear the things you want to, and how you want to.

Kimonos are my absolute favorite, I think it’s really what makes this outfit so edgy and different. This kimono from F21 in particular is my favorite. I paired this sheer H&M referee inspired shirt with a white bandeau and my favorite F21 booties!

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black out

If you know me well enough, I’m almost always wearing black. Trust me when I say, you can never go wrong with all black. It’s classic and makes you feel and look like a badass (lol).

These high- wasted pants give an edgy look with the zippers on the side. They’re very comfortable, and can be worn in many different ways! I paired it with this unique black crop-top from Wetseal which compliments the look with the open cuts on the side. I topped it off with my brown festival hat, to keep me cool from this SoCal weather.

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Details:

Top and Shoes: Wetseal

Pants and Hat: F21

pretty in pastel

Statement pieces like this, are a definite must for my closet. It’s that piece of clothing you can depend on feeling beautiful, even if you just ‘threw it on’. It’s comfortable yet elegant. I’d definitely wear this piece for a special dinner. (Valentine’s Dinner maybe…)

I’ve been searching for a pretty pastel statement piece like this for a while. I came across this beautiful romper by Bebe at Uptown Cheapskate in Fullerton for only 17.99! It’s similar to a thrift store, but with more high-end fashion picks. If you’re in the area definitely check it out

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Details:

Romper: Bebe found at Uptwon Cheapskate in Fullerton

Heels: Steve Madden